Sharky Waters.

People can be aggressive, territorial and the most intricate of hunters. This world it sometimes motions like sharky waters. “And yes, on a scale from one to over-trusting, I am pretty damn naive.” (her video is at the end of this blog posting). After rereading and listening to the poem, of which I’ve done it a million times,…

Talking To Strangers

I’m not sure what compelled me to turn my car around that day, good conversation or a gut feeling, but after I shifted to park I stepped out my car and just stood in front of his really nice BMW. I can’t tell you the series or year of its make, but I can tell…

Guidelines To Happy

There is nothing that is free. Free is a silly word and a lot of people favor it, even myself sometimes. I say sometimes because my collection of freebies clutter my life and that annoys me, but other than that I tend to enjoy the things that associate with free. Free is a desire to…

The Counter Intuitive Argument

You can’t please everyone. Something I’ve always known but never realized the disappointment of until recently. People judge the f*ck out of each other. We’re human, but must we be so hateful in disagreement? Because what is considered right or wrong but our own understandings identified to the words. And whoever gave anyone the right…

Don’t Let Your Dreams Be Dreams…

I’m writing because you are significant to my life. Our moment(s) may have been recent or awhile back, but that moment, those moments, whatever it was, it was enough to place you in my heart and enough to contribute to myself and inspire my growth as an individual. And there is nothing in this world…

Advice For The Boy

Wanting To Date Me … I always convince myself it will be a “responsible” day of errands, a check list crossed and every sense of adulthood achieved. And then I realize it’s my day off.  And that for the sake of my sanity—the bills can wait, research of maintenance on my car can pend another day, clothes can…

You Should Never Blink

…unless to silently applaud your panoramic intake and pulse. The only thing we’ll have control is our own decisions. And the key to happiness is decisiveness. An easy concept with a difficult practice, especially living in a franchised world of choice.     What I’m learning on my pursuit of happiness is that while beautiful…

Do Every Stupid Thing

… that makes you feel alive.                                   with integrity, purpose, and love. I have been longing to write, but I have been excusing myself from doing so.  I am just going to type freely, because in writing I find…

Makeshift

My life in this moment is mentally strange. And because I’m in the west coast I feel like I am caught in the undertow. Yes, I know I am lame, but I embrace it. Currently — I do not feel defeated, but I feel that I am not winning. So things have got to be shaken up,…

My 10 Rules to Live By

I’ve been terrible about keeping up with this blog and writing because life happens. Not to excuse myself, except I’m excusing myself, I’ve been living, breathing, experiencing, and most importantly learning. The older I get the more I appreciate my capacity to inhale, especially after the moments that take my breath away. I have an…